Today after uni I went to the mall with one of my sisters and my niece. I just took my purse and phone in with me. We were gone half an hour. Her car was broken into and my bag was taken, along with my sister’s wallet from the glove compartment which she had left in there after having taken a card out of it (she never carries a bag with her).
I keep running over in my head how everything aligned so perfectly for those bastards/that bastard. My sister usually never parks where we did park (under cover) and I usually NEVER leave my bag in the car. But today we ended up parked there, and my bag was so heavy with books that I just didn’t want to carry it around. So, I left it. In plain sight. So stupidly.
I can’t help but feel so guilty because the likelihood of them/the person breaking in and looking in the glove compartment had my bag not been there, is so much slimmer. She lost over a hundred in cash, which was meant to pay for my nephews’s swimming lessons. I know I shouldn’t blame myself for the revolting behaviour of other people, but if I had chosen a different action things would be different.
I feel violated. My planner has been taken with important dates in it, birthdays, etc. They know my cellphone number from the inside cover of my university books, my name.
My university books. My NOTES. My French book with notes in the margins, my big notebook with information sheets and notes from all my classes. My statistics lecture workbook with EVERYTHING from that class in it. Fortunately the stats department are nice and have the entire workbook online, with all filled-in notes, however that doesn’t get back the notes I’ve put in there of my own thoughts on things, extra explanations, whatever. That is gone.
My USB memory stick with uni files on it, including my last assignment which I had not saved elsewhere, with personal photos of my family. Another gross violation.
Nothing much else was in there, just some headphones (2 pairs actually; one set specifically for my phone), my sunglasses, some lip glosses, a nicely expensive scientific calculator, a gadget called a Quizdom Clicker for polls taken during stats class (hired from uni), my craft journal and a pen, then my pencil case. Ok there was a lot more, and it all adds up. But nothing of any GREAT sentimental value. It is replaceable. My planner and my notes are not. Or, not so much anyway. My pocket mirror with Marlene Dietrich on it is not replaceable either.
I’m so thankful my netbook was safely at home. I’m so grateful I took my wallet and phone. But I am heartbroken for my sister. I know people shouldn’t leave valuables in cars – I usually never do; but leaving YOUR belongings in YOUR car should NEVER mean it is okay for ANYONE to help themselves to it. It astounds me how much society has changed in, what, 50-odd years? People used to leave everything in their car and have it unlocked! Now if you leave ANYTHING in there your potential for being stolen from increases immensely.
Whoever did it, I hope they suffer. I hope they cut themselves on the window and I hope they get infected and then get sepsis and die from it. Or that karma one day comes back and bites them on their arse. Lose their hands maybe, get brain damage. I don’t know, don’t care what, I just want to them to know what it’s like to have their privacy violated. And maybe then some.
I’m so angry. But ours was not the only stuff taken; another car was broken into very shortly before or after my sister’s was, on the other side of the mall. So although security cameras aren’t placed where we had parked, there are cameras by where the other car was parked, and it is HIGHLY likely it was the same person/people who did both. They may have scored $150 cash off my sister, but all they got from me was statistical equations and a French textbook. Fuckers. They’ll probably dump it somewhere. It would be nice to get it back, but I very much doubt I will. They can resell some of it. Make money of MY things. Ugh!
And my new blue bag. I really liked that bag.
I mean, all up, I guess they would have taken around $200 worth of stuff from me (including my lunch box with some cling film from my sandwich in it!), but the dumb fucks left my umbrella which is actually worth about $40 dollars.
NOT a great Friday after all. No one should ever go through stuff like this. Why can’t people just be kind to each other, be honest in their life, not steal from others?